有位好友問我怎樣洞悉與面前的戀人是好對象,我會用十個細微觀察點來評分:
(一)彼此依附親密,自覺是「愛的憑據」。
Pls hold her hand
Treat her as a friend
When she is pretty say it.
When she help, you say it. Why treat it as a must? Why carry so much negative when she does So much positive.
Praise her all the above. Why black face?
You want her to angry or feel nothing?
(三)用「邀請式禮儀」,要求對方為自己辦事。
(四)「被要求代勞」的,感到高興。
Happy to do bedding because you should be happy to give. Isn't it happy to give them to get get get.
Happy to prepare for obby morning so I wake up early for god
Happy to do any job because you have a job
Happy to buy food because you create a community for a4j
Happy to help macy because I can learn so much from working.
Happy to help bruce because bruce is my boss
Happy to provide increase of life
(五)留心對方反映,「馬上調校」自己言行。
She angry about line. Why go angry with her
She said I read and not reply. She cares.
She felt unhappy her job.
She said she like grasshopper
(六)使對方付出「低成本」,就得滿意回報。
所以男的要享受遷就,女的當為踫踫運氣;我們忽略了夫婦結合是需要配合上帝所賜的一個建造工程,常常尋求上帝的祝福,我們的婚姻才可以每天多些快樂。
(一)彼此依附親密,自覺是「愛的憑據」。
Pls hold her hand
Treat her as a friend
When she is pretty say it.
When she help, you say it. Why treat it as a must? Why carry so much negative when she does So much positive.
- she buy pizza to save money
- She sleep down herself
- She willing go to church even she not believe no
- She motivate obby to come church
- She enjoy church gathering
- She have 6 with me
- She working hard and provide family
- She share half of Canada
- She is very gentle to me
- She loves her sister
- She enjoy wake
Praise her all the above. Why black face?
You want her to angry or feel nothing?
(三)用「邀請式禮儀」,要求對方為自己辦事。
(四)「被要求代勞」的,感到高興。
Happy to do bedding because you should be happy to give. Isn't it happy to give them to get get get.
Happy to prepare for obby morning so I wake up early for god
Happy to do any job because you have a job
Happy to buy food because you create a community for a4j
Happy to help macy because I can learn so much from working.
Happy to help bruce because bruce is my boss
Happy to provide increase of life
(五)留心對方反映,「馬上調校」自己言行。
She angry about line. Why go angry with her
She said I read and not reply. She cares.
She felt unhappy her job.
She said she like grasshopper
(六)使對方付出「低成本」,就得滿意回報。
- make small contribution for big return.
- No need pay her big bucks. Do small doses to keep remind her.
- What can she do? She just need to be home more. Do small things. Get a small present tomorrow ( Friday)
- She is doing
- She only suggest Shek o
- She only suggest cheung Chau
- I suggest Canada's she support.
- How can I support her ?
- Attend to her small needs
- Like wake board.
- Like her pizza so good
- Like material needs
- Mental needs. She feels god is not with her.
- She want to renew her house. Nothing wrong.
- let her talk
- I always let her talk
- I m normal and only God bring me to a higher level.
- I was foolish.
- she tells me story about her dislike. So I know how people think.
- How they don't like. How jealous they feel. How people protect herself and do stupid things
- How anger is created.
- She wants to start up organisation
- She want no work. Why not!
所以男的要享受遷就,女的當為踫踫運氣;我們忽略了夫婦結合是需要配合上帝所賜的一個建造工程,常常尋求上帝的祝福,我們的婚姻才可以每天多些快樂。